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Guideline to This Forum – General Dissection
This forum is for, like it says, general stuff. If you’re talking about something unrelated to SKU, and it is not a personal issue, it goes here. Please keep posted images non-sexual in nature; text is always worksafe, and therefore dirty stories/jokes can be posted. Please mark any NWS (not work safe) links with NWS. This is a public forum, so don’t post anything that you don’t want getting around! Please, no low-content threads in this forum.
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1. First Rule, Read the Rules! – If you don’t read the rules, you won’t know what’s in them. Admittedly, most of it is common sense stuff, but some of it isn’t; if you break a rule and try to defend yourself with ignorance, we’ll pretend like you broke the rule on purpose.
Why? Because not reading the rules means you don’t care about the community, and if you don’t care, we won’t either.
2. Tolerance – We’re often an opinionated group, from our favorite characters down to our philosophical beliefs. Everyone has a right to their own opinion. You should never have to apologize for your opinions, and while others may want to discuss them, you should never be attacked for them. As mods, we will uphold this for everyone, no matter how different their opinions may be from yours, or ours. We expect you to use common sense and politeness in dealing with those opinions; even if you are offended, there is no reason for personal attacks. Remember, that same umbrella of politeness and tolerance protects you too.
If you are offended by a member of the forum, we have specific guidelines in place to help you . Please note that these guidelines are not for debates; they are to help us deal with drama on the forum without it making everyone insecure. These guidelines are a part of the rules and are required reading.
3. Abuse – Abuse of other forum members will not be tolerated. If someone is abusive to you while you are on the forum, let the mods know immediately! We will ban forum members for abusive behavior while on our territory. We can’t and won’t police your IMs or Facebook, but you can do that yourself.
Anyone not on the forums is fair game. We won’t ban you if you abuse people who aren’t our members; that’s just foreplay. But remember, no one likes it when you kiss and tell, so it might not be the smartest thing in the world to talk about it.
4. Swearing/Internet Lingo – We swear. You probably do too. Don’t worry about it unless it’s excessive; we may ask you to tone it down if you’re swearing so much that we can’t figure out what you’re saying. Internet Lingo, however, should only be used for comedic purposes. We’re above that shit.
5. Introductions – Introduce yourself in the appropriate thread, located . We do want to know who you are—we just don’t want to clutter and derail other threads with introductions.
6. Thread Necromancy and Redux – We encourage thread necromancy! We'd rather see an old thread brought back from the dead than see a duplicate topic, especially in the case of analysis threads. Check to see if your thread idea has been posted. If you've got a new topic, or if you're bringing a fresh perspective to an old topic, go ahead and post a new thread.
7. Thread Derails – Don’t derail threads—what’s in the topic should be what the thread is about. If you find yourself derailing and you think it’s worth a discussion, create a new thread and link to it. If it’s not worth a discussion, try to put the thread back on topic.
8. Respect your Mods! – We’re putting in our free time to make this place awesome for you, and we do the best we can. REMEMBER, we can’t do a good job without feedback, so if you have questions or comments for us, feel free to pm us and ask—but if we’re laying down the law and you have concerns, please comply with our requests and discuss your concerns in private with us. We are trying to make sure this place is safe and sane for everyone; being able to question us is a big part of that, but so is doing it privately.
9. Commercial Spam – We will ban spammers on sight and with very little provocation. Having a personal website in your sig is okay; talking about/showing off your own personal businesses or sites is okay; registering specifically to fill the forum with that sort of thing is not. We may even ban you before you post if this is the case; we’re good at recognizing spammers. In the event that we do make a mistake, contact us by email so we can clear it up.
10. Hate Speech – We will ban people for hate speech (nigger, faggot, etc.), but that is up to our discretion and the context of the post. If it is clearly meant to be a joke, we will take the action we believe to be appropriate. If it is clearly not a joke, it is a bannable offense. Keep in mind that your interpretation may not line up with ours, and feel free to ask us about any decisions we make.
11. Catchall Rule – Please don’t try to circumvent the rules. If we run into a situation not covered in the rules, it will be left up to the mods’ collective discretion.
1. Avatars - They're hosted on the forum server, but you're responsible for making them. 100x100 pixels max, 10KB max. If you're really hurting, PM Giovanna or Yasha with a request image and one of them will probably help you out-- or post in the !
2. Signatures - Please keep images to a max of 500x75 and a max of 25KB. Remember, we’re gonna see these over and over and over whenever you post; keep them small so that they’re not getting in the way of your posts. Really, we’re more interested in what you have to say.
3. Images in posts - You're responsible for hosting (try and ), aside from images from our gallery. Feel free to directly link to anything on your webspace or on our gallery, but do not leech images. Also, do not put images wider than 800 pixels in your post! Please link larger ones so you don't break tables; breaking tables can screw up the code of the page the broken table is on. Many pictures in the gallery will break tables, so keep that in mind when using those images.
4. BBCode - If you don't know how to use BBCode, .
If you don’t like a decision we’ve made, feel free to politely ask us about it in pm or email and explain your point of view. We try to be as fair as possible, but being human, that’s not always what happens. If you have been banned and you think it’s unfair, we will be happy to discuss the circumstances of your banning and possible reparations; we care about everyone here and want everyone to be happy, and if that’s possible, we’ll try to find a way.
We will provide explanations for any moderation decisions we make (bans, drama, whether we went to McDonalds, whatever you want). Furthermore, we will provide explanations for times we are wrong/have changed our minds/any other circumstances regarding reversed decisions. We reserve the right, however, not to post explicit evidence in the public forums as in some cases it does more harm than good. In private, with the permission of all involved parties, it is a different matter. The forum is for you, and you deserve to know what's going on. If you made a mistake, though, you also deserve not to have it paraded in front of everyone else. Our mistakes are fair game-- we'll post whatever you want about them.
These Rules Suck!
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Posting Habits to Watch Out For
This is just a list of things we see from time to time that would be bad habits to form. They are not bannable or disciplinary offenses, but they don't reflect the kind of place we want the forum to be.
Prejudice Against New Members – this can be a very tricky one to catch. A new member is going to feel like they don’t have much to contribute just from the sheer amount of stuff on here. Don’t help that impression! We were all new and nervous here once, and look how many great things have come out of hanging around! If you feel tempted to talk about how long you’ve been here, you might be about to scare someone away from the forum, so consider it carefully before you do it.
Low Content First Posts – Unless a news article, story, or other link really speaks for itself, please at least give a little description or excerpt of it and your reason for posting it. It’s more interesting when we know what it is and why we should click the link!
Plagiarism – It should go without saying, but please don’t claim other people's material as your own. They might sue you, and there can be consequences for the forum in general such as trolls and drama. Credit other people for their work, and please remember, if we are notified of plagiarism, we will ask you to take your post down. Remember, quoting more than four words in a row without credit is plagiarism; use that as a guideline. Cracks, rips, and warez fall under this—don't distribute them in our forums. We'll let you know if we think you're crossing lines.
I Don’t Know You People – This is a distancing technique sometimes used in heated debates, and while it is true that it’s hard to know people over the net, it has the effect of stopping discussion and insulting members who felt they knew you. It isn’t a good habit to get into because it breaks trust and makes communication harder to achieve.
Backseat Modding – It doesn’t come up often, but please don’t moderate unless 1) the rules are very clear on the subject or 2) you are a moderator. Things like 'please NWS that link' and 'don't derail the thread' are fine.
Mod/Admin Contact Directory
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There's An App For That: How To Be Offended on IRG
Here in IRG, we're unified by our enjoyment of Shoujo Kakumei Utena -- and by little else! As of this writing, we have over 700 representatives here from across every spectrum you care to name: atheists and Mormons, Europeans and Australians, 4chan comedians and Shakesville feminists, the gay, the transgendered, and even the straight (!). With such diversity, you're guaranteed a broad set of perspectives on any topic related to Utena or, for that matter, to life. And by "a broad set of perspectives," I mean disagreement.
Disagreement is good. We come away from it with a broadened appreciation of things old and new. What's not so good is when a disagreement turns personal on a forum thread. That kind of argument derails threads and makes well-intentioned people feel lynch-mobbed. When your emotions run high, ask yourself if you want the other person to take back what they said, apologize for it, and/or never say it again. If so, for the sake of argument, we will say you are offended. That is no state of mind in which to conduct a discussion in a room of 700 people.
That doesn't mean you have to abandon being offended! On the contrary, you're entitled to it, and good can come out of it. But you do need to shrink the size of the room. You can do that in three ways!
1. Can you shrink the room to one person? Stand up. Take a walk. Maybe have a nap, or at least a pretzel. Then sit back down. Are you still offended? If not, congratulations, you've solved the problem! But if you're still offended, move to the next step.
2. Can you shrink the room to two people? Could you talk one-on-one with the person who offended you? If so, PM them and tell them how you feel. Understand that they probably won't jump down your throat and may have had no idea they would offend someone! So don't be abusive; say what you mean in a tactful and responsible way. They should do the same, whether that means apologizing or holding firm. See if you can reach an understanding. If this doesn't work, you can always try the third way.
3. Can you shrink the room to three or five people? PM a moderator, or use the Report button on the offending post, and explain the situation to us. We'll deal with the situation anonymously on your behalf, whether or not we agree with you! "Dealing with the situation" usually doesn't mean discipline; it means sharing your concerns and seeing if we can find a solution through -- well -- moderation!
If none of these work, can you trot out your wounded dignity in front of 700 people? Well, actually, no, you can't. That would pressure the other person -- and everyone listening -- to stop contributing or run their posts through your filters before posting. When we're all trying to pass through 700 people's filters, the forum asphyxiates. (Have you ever tried to breathe through 700 layers of cloth? ) Instead, it's best to accept that when you interact with people with different backgrounds and expectations, sometimes you get offended. It is your personal responsibility to deal with it in a mature and reasonable manner, the same way it is in real life.
When all is said and done, shrinking the room will turn dramabombs into more relaxed and productive discussions that don't oppress the peace of the forum. No one's asking Saionji to make an omelette without breaking eggs; we just ask that he throw the eggshells into the above-enumerated receptacles instead of onto the floor, where we all have to walk on them. And with that tortured metaphor, we bid you happy SKUing!